everyone changes. its a given. some changes can be for the better, others for the worse. theres changes that wouldn't be expected, others that would.
its not about not liking change either, its all about how its handled. because if you cant handle things well, then, well, sorry but things wont be good for you. if you can, well then, congratulations.
things come up, its always how it just is. its apart of life. but some things that come up, can be controlled, and you had a hand in what actually occured because some decision you made at some point, influenced whatever happened, to happen.
some people i have met, are really flexible when it comes to change, others not so much. some have failed and some have flown way above the sky with it. it all depends on you and how you handle things.
people tell you not to let everyone else around you effect you, but thats pretty impossible to do. considering every single little thing in life, somehow has some sort of influence on you (for example, tv. kids who hadn't watched tv before the age of 2 and a half, had a WAY less chance of ever developing ADD)
peoples stupid decisions, will effect us, peoples smart decisions will. mostly your own desicions will too. but sometimes, some things you cant control it. like you cant control your friends decisions. its just a matter of whether or not your gona go along with it, and let yourself be influenced or if your gona say no to whatever it is and to understand whats best for you and not give a damn about what that person says about it.
